I used to get this question (or some variation of it) all the time during my seven years as a youth pastor: If Jesus atoned for our sins, why should we try to be good?
You see, kids are smart. Theyâll figure out a loophole in anything, be it a silly youth group game or, you know, their eternal salvation. With some regularity, my students would ask: âIf the gospel is true, and Jesus died for my sins, then why do I still have to live a certain way? Iâm already forgiven. Iâm already saved. And Godâs not going to take that away. So whatâs the point? Why do I have to live the way he wants?â
To which I would respond, âBecause, as Dietrich Bonhoeffer said in his masterful book Discipleship, when you accept Christâs atonement but then live however you want, it cheapens Christâs blood and sacrifice. So be good, lest you make Christâs sacrifice less costly than it actually is.â
Okay. I never actually said that. I wanted to sometimes, but I never did. Hereâs what I would say instead:
âImagine someone gave you an expensive gift. Maybe a family member or friend gave you a Playstation 5 or an Xbox Series X for your birthday. Thatâd be a costly gift, right?â
âYes,â my students would say, especially the gamers, who at this point would start visibly salivating.
âWell, how do you think theyâd feel if you just shrugged your shoulders, muttered, âThis is OK,â and then tossed it against the wall? Do you think theyâd feel as if you appreciated it?â
âNŽÇ.â
âWhat do you think theyâd appreciate instead?â
âMe saying, âThank you,ââ theyâd say.
âRight,â Iâd say. âSame goes for God. You see, heâs given us a costly gift too. Itâs the gift of our salvation. And that gift came at great cost to him. It cost him his Sonâs life, in fact. So, just like with someone else who gives us a gift, we need to say âthank you.â And part of how we say âthank youâ to God is by living the way God asks. That demonstrates our gratitude to him. It doesnât earn our salvation. But it does thank him for it.â
That explanation reflects the Heidelberg Catechismâs three-part structure of guilt, grace, and gratitude. As the catechism teaches, our sin leads to guilt, our guilt leads to Godâs grace, and that grace leads to our gratitude to God, which includes living the way God asks us to.
There are other ways to answer this question too. For instance: Christians should live good lives because our actions are an important part of our witness to nonbelievers. Good living is also the result of the ongoing, indwelling, sanctifying work of the Holy Spirit, and we shouldnât quench it (1 Thess. 5:19). Finally, living well helps us embody the proverbial ânot yetâ of the new creation in the here and now, giving us a foretaste of the life God will enable us to live in the life to come.
But my answer was the one I most often give: Our good living is one of the ways we say âthank youâ to God for all God has done for us. And, having received that gift, I humbly think âthank youâ is something we should say a lot, both with our words and our actions.
About the Author
Brandon Haan serves as the senior pastor at Ivanrest Church in Grandville, Mich. He lives in Grandville with his wife, Sarah, and their three children, Levi, Titus, and Audrey.