Kudos
Seldom do I read The Banner and come away greatly blessed and encouraged, but with the March 2010 issue I certainly did. Several articles were just great, among them āStudying the Belhar in Iowa,ā āThe Journey of Grief,ā and the piece to be framed by all of us: āOur Great Treasures.ā The piece on āTrue Confessionsā was pretty good also.
Keep up this kind of work, and I will read with much anticipation.
āGeorge McGuireSpringville, Ala.
Thank you for āDecoding Our Good Newsā (February 2010). So often I find myself caught up in jargon when explaining the gospel. This was brought home to me in our GEMS club, when, after a particularly moving time of worship, one little girl came up to me and asked in a concerned tone, āIād like to let Jesus into my heart, but if I do, will he be able to get out again?ā Bryan Berghoefās article āHow (Not) to Talk About Godā was also a great reminder. Like the apostle Paul, we need to ābecome all things to all people, that some might be savedā (1 Cor. 9:22).
āValerie Van KootenPella, Iowa
In his excellent article āBe Perfect?ā (February 2010), Shiao Chong gives us the kind of helpful insight into the Scriptures that we need more of. For many of us, the Bible contains lots of passages that are hard to understand. Well-trained, clear-headed ministers can help a lot. Thank you.
āW.S. VanderploegGrand Rapids, Mich.
Invisible Disability
As the parent of an adopted FASD child, I feel compelled to respond to Joan Rinkerās article on Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (āAn Invisible Disability,ā February 2010).
Rinker described my son perfectly. However, as sad and grief-laden as the article is, my story has a lovely twist: God placed my son into my life to teach me some priceless lessons through the horrific effects of FASD. Through my son, I learned not only to lean on God like never before, but above all discovered the unconditional love God has for each one of usāeven during the years I was blamed for nearly all my sonās troubles. My son is a gift from above, but I need my heart near Godās to carry on.
āTheresa BakkerTownsend, Ontario
I am an obstetrician with subspecialty training in maternal-fetal medicine and complicated pregnancies. That training was at Wayne State University, which has done long-term research into FASD. While it would seem common sense to avoid all alcohol during pregnancy, no science suggests that small amounts can cause injury to fetuses. To suggest otherwise puts undue burden on those who have special-needs kids and who had an occasional drink during pregnancy.
āDr. Russ Jelsema
Grand Rapids, Mich.
In all my work in child welfare, alcohol was the consistent part of the pictureā
I estimated it to be in at least 90 percent of the cases. More sophisticated measures today cite 90 percent of cases as stemming from all forms of addiction, but alcohol is still believed to be the leading cause of family breakdown. And generally other drugs donāt cause permanent damage the way alcohol consumption does. Even a small dent in these numbers would be great and well worth the cost.
āJake TerpstraGrand Rapids, Mich.
Peace Talks
I was heartened to read that both the CRC and the Mennonites agreed on a Remembrance Day service that focuses on all war dead, rather than on only those who have died in military service (āCRC, Mennonites Discuss War and Peace,ā February 2010).
According to Johns Hopkins University, the Iraq war has caused the deaths of more than 500,000 children. And that figure does not include the hundreds of thousands of Iraqis and Americansāmen, women, and childrenāwho have been injured and psychologically traumatized.
āDave ThomasPaterson, N.J.
Hair Reformers
I would like to tell you the story of āCalvinās: The Hair Reformers,ā whose sign was featured in Punch Lines in the February Banner. Phil, the owner, said that as he considered options for the name, he thought of his beloved dog, Calvin. Knowing the history of John Calvin, he thought of the word Reformed and made the connection to hair.
On a side note, I was puzzled by the following comment with the photo: ā[They] spotted this sign ināof all placesāBozeman, Mont.ā There are four Christian Reformed churches in the valley and dozens of other churches here as well. Iām not sure why it would be such a surprise to see a sign like this here, but as they say, Montana is the ālast best placeā of all places.
āAnne KingmaManhattan, Mont.
Neglected Training
Christian Reformed World Missions' vision "to walk alongside local congregations" can't happen unless the churches also want that ("Ministry Shares Promote Missions," p. 29, January 2010). The attendance at all three missions-training conferences I attended was atrociously low. CRWM and the Christian Reformed World Relief Committee are sending out staff to lead full-day gatherings, but apparently the churches don't see the worth. Encouraging speakers go unheard; excellent workshops, unattended. In my experience, only well-prepared short-term missions teams should be sent out, so come and get training! Delegate deacons and mission committees to attend. See the online schedule at crwm.org, under Resources: Missions Education & Engagement.
āRev. Lou Wagenveld(retired missionary pastor)Grand Rapids, Mich.