Gone are the days when Christian Reformed people would routinely visit with fellow church-goers over a big Sunday dinner in someoneās home.
āItās a busy world,ā said Marilyn Bouwer, a long-time member of . āIt doesnāt seem like people visit as much as they used to.ā
So Helen Evanson, hospitality committee chair at the church, came up with a plan for their members to be more intentional about hospitality.
Evanson started Dinner for 6 + 2. Couples and singles sign up, and she organizes them into groups of six. The group takes turns meeting in different peopleās homes for a meal. At each meeting, the host has the option of inviting two additional people.
āSome suggestions for the āplus 2ā include new visitors to our church, neighbors, or anyone youād like to introduce to your church friends,ā stated the sign-up flyer.
Bradenton CRC has an interesting mix of long-time church members who know everything about each other and an influx of new members who have a need to get to know the church.
āPeople were very friendly, but we didnāt know each other very well,ā said Barb Woodburn, who joined the church about five years ago.
Many of the newer members have signed up for the dinners. āIt has helped people new to the church to feel at home here,ā said Evanson.
Long-time members like Bouwer have been enthusiastic participants as wellāshe and her husband have participated in all seven of the 6+2 dinners that have been held so far. āI highly recommend people opening their home,ā Bouwer said. āYou can get [non-believers] to come to a home more easily [than to a church building.]ā
About the Author
Roxanne VanFarowe is a freelance writer who claims both Canadian and American citizenship and grew up in the Christian Reformed Church. She is a member of Blacknall Presbyterian Church in Durham, North Carolina.